Wedding planning comes with many decisions. One of them that I've struggled with is changing my last name. I've never been one to hate my name: Courtney Elizabeth Webster. It flows well, it's easy to pronounce, people rarely misspell it, and I've lived 22 years with it. You could say I'm used to it by now. Courtney Elizabeth Aguiar does not have the same ring to it. I love my fiancé to the moon and back, but I don't understand how that coincides with changing my last name. That's why, after I say, "I do", Brandon and I will leave hand in hand as Mr. Aguiar + Mrs. Webster. There's something about the sound of that that I enjoy so much more. There is so much about our wedding that is considered nontraditional in theory, and I'm OK with that. We're two very different people with very different names who want to live a very similar life side by side, day by day. We'll be a very happy Mr. and Mrs., but we'll just be a little more complicated to address on your Christmas cards.